有些人自以为穿戴名牌会让自己的身份提高,但往往他们都忘了自己本来的身份。我认为如果你是富有的,高贵的你穿戴假货都没人会说你所佩戴的是假货还是便宜货。如果你本身的外表让人看起来一点都不起眼,普普通通“身份也没什么特别”,即使你所佩戴的是上千上万的名牌货,人家也会觉得你所用的是AA货还是便宜货。这就是身份的问题,要提高自己的身份不是靠这些身外物,而是必须靠脑,靠努力,靠知识,吸取更多的人生经验,读多些刊物。
有些人不了解别人的苦衷,痛苦就下结论,以前我也曾经这样同意他人所说的人是个什么都要买便宜的要省,但当我慢慢的去了解去体谅当事人,我终于了解他的苦衷。每个月的薪水扣除每个月的费用,只剩下的也无几了。有些东西是可以省的,有便宜的你不要难道要去买贵的?那不是很笨?有些人就认为贵的一定是好的,品质一百分,如果他是个不珍惜东西的人,东西也照样会很快坏。我本人买东西也不一定要买贵的,买的时候也会考虑这样的东西值得这样的价钱吗?我真的需要吗?还是可不买。
有些人自认自己的学历很高就应该得到以学历成评比的薪水,但从来也不想想自己的学历高,但没经验。现在的社会学历固然重要但经验也不可少,书上学来的只是给你一个指导,在正正的时候是必须以情况来对症下药,这个时候经验就可以派上用场。经验是可以累积的,在生活上每份每秒你所做的或别人所做的都是个经验。即使是一个小孩,也不断的从失败中吸取经验,而我们已是个很有分析能力的大人了,怎可以输给小孩呢?失败了别气馁,想想在整个过程中你学到了什么,吸取更多的经验,保证自己别再犯同样的错误。
有些人会爱慕虚荣,看到别人有的自己也要有,怎样都不可输给他人。但当你在爱慕虚荣的当儿你有没有想想自己的口袋,为自己的未来打算, 自己有没有这样的能力来追求这样所谓的爱慕虚荣。人如果因为爱慕虚荣而为自己打拼,用自己的计划而达到那爱慕虚荣,为自己而努力,那这种人我很欣赏。最看小那些自己没本事,口袋钱也没几个的人还逼着自己去跟随这些东西,每个月都当月光族也无说谓的人。
有些人嘴里时常说想这样想那样但没有一件事实现过,说了有何用,到最后还不是不了了之。说过了就必须想尽办法来实现它。这世上没什么是我不能,只有我不要,没恒心什么也别说了。曾经上过一些激励课,讲师说先有明确的目标再来就是计划如何达到目标。。。。
有些人很吝啬自己的知识,这种人我觉得他做一世人也不会发达,有了这样的性格别人懂了固然也会以他这种性格来对待他,你觉得别人还会帮他吗?他应该还不懂这个道理~学 - 做 - 教~从别人身上学会了,就应该用在适合的地方,成功了就不应该吝啬,把它教给需要的人。
有些人很喜欢讲一套做一套,讲的时候就天下无敌,做就无能为力。。。这样讲来有何用,不是在白费口水吗,浪费时间。这种人还不是最讨厌的,最憎恨那些在你面前对你说他人的坏话,但到头来还跟他成为好朋友,这就是对朋友不忠嘛。。但社会是很残酷的,朋友会出卖你,亲人也会出卖你,有关于到钱财的更不必多说。钱是会用完的时候,也会被人抢,就只有知识是无限的。
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Thursday, April 16, 2009
~KL Trip~
Date~09/04/09 - 11/04/09
Go by~Air Asia
Back by~WKY 980
Accomodation~Boulevard Hotel
Shopping Area~Mid Valley, Sg Wang, The Garden, The curve, Ikano Power Centre Juru Auto City Weekend Market
Food~09/04/09 Dinner - LCCT McDonald, Old Klang Road Wan Tan Mee
10/04/09 Lunch - Mid Valley Yoshinoya
Dinner - Petalling Street 烧肉面&老鼠粉煲
11/04/09 Lunch - Ikano Restaurant Ayam Penyet
Dinner - Juru Auto City Mahantan Fish Market
Stuff that i bought~3Dress, 2Singlet, 2Short Coat
Went to KL last week, met my best friend Angel who just transer from Penang to KL. Know her since year 2004 when im still in Penang, she is friendly, helpful...Sure i will visit her everytime when i go to Penang, but now she transfer to KL, mean we cant meet always and when i go to penang nobody that i must to visit for. Although she is there but does'nt mean we are lost our contact, we do chating on phone, sms sometime, i miss her so much, i bet she do miss me also~Cheers my best friend Angel, is my pleasure to help you, listen to you when you got any problem~Remember im always by your side to accompany you~
This trip i visit to my ex-boss and friend new opening pub - FINNZ PUB which located in Uptown Damansara. It was a small shop lot but full of drinker that night, it own by 3 person who from Penang. Shop design is simple but look nice, that night they invite some podium dancer to perform there~Hope thier business will grow fast and all the best~
Go by~Air Asia
Back by~WKY 980
Accomodation~Boulevard Hotel
Shopping Area~Mid Valley, Sg Wang, The Garden, The curve, Ikano Power Centre Juru Auto City Weekend Market
Food~09/04/09 Dinner - LCCT McDonald, Old Klang Road Wan Tan Mee
10/04/09 Lunch - Mid Valley Yoshinoya
Dinner - Petalling Street 烧肉面&老鼠粉煲
11/04/09 Lunch - Ikano Restaurant Ayam Penyet
Dinner - Juru Auto City Mahantan Fish Market
Stuff that i bought~3Dress, 2Singlet, 2Short Coat
Went to KL last week, met my best friend Angel who just transer from Penang to KL. Know her since year 2004 when im still in Penang, she is friendly, helpful...Sure i will visit her everytime when i go to Penang, but now she transfer to KL, mean we cant meet always and when i go to penang nobody that i must to visit for. Although she is there but does'nt mean we are lost our contact, we do chating on phone, sms sometime, i miss her so much, i bet she do miss me also~Cheers my best friend Angel, is my pleasure to help you, listen to you when you got any problem~Remember im always by your side to accompany you~
This trip i visit to my ex-boss and friend new opening pub - FINNZ PUB which located in Uptown Damansara. It was a small shop lot but full of drinker that night, it own by 3 person who from Penang. Shop design is simple but look nice, that night they invite some podium dancer to perform there~Hope thier business will grow fast and all the best~
~Pissed Off – Episode 2~
~Same thing but ask to repeat more than 2times~
~Just want a simple answer but the person explain so much that not related~
~Not listen to other explanation~
~Don't know much but act like professional~
~Not listen to other idea or opinion, and force to follow his or her way~
~Not follow the instruction, and give so much of opinion that not workable~
~Act pity when the problem happen nor find the way to solve it~
~Try to threaten with some simple job that can done by anybody~
~Don't know the meaning of sharing~
~Secretive just for nothing~
~Like to cry just because small matter~
~Use other people name as to help his or her to success in something~
~Don't dare to adit when mistake~
~Like to order other to help her or his job~
~Treat them in polite way but they treat you in rude way~
~Action and show off what they have, what they know~
~Just want a simple answer but the person explain so much that not related~
~Not listen to other explanation~
~Don't know much but act like professional~
~Not listen to other idea or opinion, and force to follow his or her way~
~Not follow the instruction, and give so much of opinion that not workable~
~Act pity when the problem happen nor find the way to solve it~
~Try to threaten with some simple job that can done by anybody~
~Don't know the meaning of sharing~
~Secretive just for nothing~
~Like to cry just because small matter~
~Use other people name as to help his or her to success in something~
~Don't dare to adit when mistake~
~Like to order other to help her or his job~
~Treat them in polite way but they treat you in rude way~
~Action and show off what they have, what they know~
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
~Cheers to Myself~
At last, finish the lunch meeting~ Everything solve, she just ask for my opinion about she change me to other department, do other job~ I answer is yes, I accept it because at last I got something to do, something to handle, no need due to the person I dun like, I can work alone, and the most important is I get what I want~ Anyways thanks for this arrangement, this is the best time to arrange this, I will appreciate it and done my job perfectly, prove it to everyone, especially to the person who always look down on me, talk bout my bad words behind me~ But this is a challenge to me, because I never do it before, and I need to learn from beginning~ In my book nothing is impossible, as long as I use my heart, I hardworking, willing to learn, sure I will success in the end~ I will do my best to prove it, wont let other look down on me anymore~ Add oil~ Wendybe~ Cheers
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